You just recieved the beautiful wedding invitation and look forward to a beautifil and fun-filled day ahead of you. You already know weddings are a perfect mix of yummy food, great wines and dancing. They are also a great way to connect with old friends, meet new ones and make potentially important social contacts. So its still important that you enjoy yourself but make sure you do it with style and good graces. Who knows, you just might be impressing your future boss or husband

1. Do send out your RSVP early: Don’t assume that a verbal “I’m coming, I wouldn’t miss it for the world!” is enough. No matter how close you think you are to the bride, a formal RSVP is always necessary when it has been requested on the invitation. Why? Most brides will probably have a master list or folder where she keeps all her returned RSVPs. It’s this file that she will refer back to when she plans the seating, the meal selection etc… Even if she knows, you, her best friend, is coming, its always easier to have everything in a neat little place where she can refer to. So don’t make her life even more difficult by neglecting to RSVP. Another note is, if a formal card is requested to be sent back, then do so. Don’t make up your own method of replying (ex. email, phone etc. ) along the way.

2. Don’t bring an uninvited date: This is when reading “between the lines” is necessary but literally, you should read EXACTLY what is on the address line. If the envelope and card is addressed to you with your name only, then you must accept that you are invited as a solo guest. If your host is giving you the option of bringing a date, then your invitation will be addressed to you “plus one” or you “and guest”. Having said that, if you are bringing a guest, then RSVP accordingly. Don’t RSVP for one and then bring a date on the day of the wedding!

3. Don’t wear white (or black): You’d think this one was a no brainer. But it is still one of the most obvious and embarassing faux pas being committed. Only the bride should be in white on her wedding day. Wearing this color will make you appear completely inconsiderate in the eyes of the bride, her family and all of the other wedding guests. Another color to avoid is ALL black. In some cultures this color is associated with mourning and is shunned at festive events. Wearing all black in the daytime is to be avoided, but that doesn’t mean you have to nix it altogether. Adding a dash of color with a colorful scarf or cardigan will make a big difference. You can take those items off as you head into the evening event where all black for cocktail hour and dinner is acceptable.

4. Don’t upstage the couple: This is the bridal couple’s special day to shine and have all the attention on them. After months of planning and hard work, this is their once in a lifetime chance to have a day all their own. Avoid wearing ostentatious getups that will draw the spotlight away from them. Don’t wear cleavage bearing or short, sexy hemlines. Don’t complain about what you have been asked to wear. Whether the couple requested guests to be in black tie or even costumes, don’t make a fuss. Sure you might not look great sporting a fascinator but if it has been requested and would make the couple happy, then do it. Just remember, its not about you! In general, just be respectful, dress up in a festive outfit that shows you took time to look good but also leaving the spotlight for the bride.

5. Don’t Skip the ceremony and go to the reception: Sure we all know that wedding receptions are parties and parties are a lot of fun! However, don’t treat the wedding ceremony and the reception as two separate events. Although some guests get antsy sitting through an hour long ceremony full of rituals that they’ve never heard of and sometimes even conducted in other languages, it’s still important to your hosts that you are physically present to witness the special bond they are making with each other. Don’t forget, thats why you were invited in the first place. Next time, (that’s only if you lack the basic decency to really muster up some excitement for the wedding couple) try using the visualization of a booming party and open bar later on in the evening as your motivation.

Not blessed with long legs? You’re not alone. Think of glamourous stylish stars like Nicole Ritchie, Reese Witherspoon and Natalie Portman to name a few. These are all beautiful celebrities all under 5’4″. Yet, you may not realize it as they are always cleverly styled in perfect outfits that help bring out their best assets. If you also happen to be a petite beauty, then this article is for you. Below, we’ll give you tips on dressing to make your legs look longer.

Monochromatic

Wear one continuous color from top to bottom. Also, match the color of your shoes, tights and stockings with your pants or skirts. A sweeping continuous color will give the illusion of longer legs.

Utilize more dark or muted colors on your lower body to create a leaner look.

Avoid wearing different layers of colors on your lower body because the color block effect will break up a long continuous silhouette.

Short Tops

Opt for short to medium length tops to give the look of a shorter torso and longer legs.

Avoid wearing long tops that end at your hips because longer tops will “lengthen” your torso and thereby shorten the look of your legs.

High Waisted Bottoms

Wear high waisted designs as these styles will create an illusion of your waistline starting at a higher position and thereby maximizing your height.

Do tuck in your shirts or tops to prevent them from hanging too long and lengthening the look of your torso.

Avoid dropped waistbands or low waisted bottoms to avoid adding a horizontal line at the widest part of your body.

Hemlines

Keep your hemlines shorter for shorts and skirts to show a decent amount of legs.

Long pant hemlines that cover a tall platform heel will create the look of long lean legs in minutes!

Avoid hemlines that end mid-thigh or mid-calve.

Heels

Heels elongate your legs and accentuate your curves instantly. Yet, if you are not comfortable wearing heels, you may always start with 3 inches or wedges. Heels with “hidden platforms” are also a good choice since they are easier to walk in. A 5 inch heel becomes manageable when the front has a 2 inch “hidden platform”. Your feet doesn’t need to arch as instensely. Also opt for pointy toes to bring the vertical line down to the very far end of your toes.

Avoid strappy heels or ankle boots that will cut off your legs at the ankles.

You do not need to be born with model like legs for it to look miles long. Knowing how to dress yourself is all it takes to look slim and chic.

Do you LOVE that special item you’ve just tried on but don’t love the fact you’ll have to spend more money on alterations?  In this article we will teach you some ingenious alterations alternatives you can use to avoid a costly trip to the seamstresses.

Choose Skinny Fit Pantlegs

Try choosing skinny style leg designs for your jeans or pants.  This type of cut accentuates the natural length of your leg and the skin-like fit helps to create smooth streamlined lines for the bottom half of your body.  Skinnies don’t need to be hemmed – they can be easily roll up or can be left rouched around your ankle. Leaving them scrunched at the cuff gives off an edgy feel, especially when paired with those killer heels and a slim-fit blazer.

Add Physical Straps to Strapless Items

Do you prefer a closer fit in the bust area for your strapless items?  Instead of altering the width of the bustline for a tighter fit, why not consider adding adjustable straps to your item?  Placing physical straps in the appropriate spots will stop any flapping, eliminate loose fabric in the chest area and stop the item from falling off once and for all.

In order to add physical straps to your strapless item, first you will need to prepare a small amount of fabric or ribbon that is the same or similar color  to your item for making the hook loops. Second, measure and cut the fabric into four equal lengths. Third, fold the fabric strips in half and sew the holders in place along the front and back edges of the bustline with a thread similar in color to the item. Try to sew the loops into existing seams whenever possible for a more seamless effect. Lastly, hook your adjustable straps into the loop for a more secure fit.

Use Lingerie Tape for Shortening Your Hemline Temporarily

Is your dress or pants too long for that pair of flats you wear only once in a blue moon? Sometimes you may not want to alter your hemlines permanently and if you like just a temporary fix, try applying lingerie tape along the bottom seam of your hemline to shorten the length.

This skin-friendly, fabric-friendly tape is specially designed for clothing. First, fold the desired amount of fabric that you’d like to shorten and then iron the folded area to lock in the crease, add the tape onto the inside fold and press into place. This will give you a temporary fix to achieve a shortened look. Once you are done wearing the item, simply peel off the lingerie tape away from the fabric before washing to avoid getting the tape onto other clothing in the washing machine. (To avoid melting the tape onto the garment, do  not iron the item again while the tape is still on the item)

Choosing the lingerie tape over alterations is an ideal temporary fix for young ladies as this will allow them to grow into the item

To read more about how to use the lingerie tape, click lingerie tape tutorial.

Add Padded Bras and Silicone Bras for a More Secure Fit

Try layering colourful bandeaus and bralettes underneath loose fitting top or dresses to add more volume in the bust and reinforce the amount of friction between the fabric and the skin for a tighter fit.

To add more volume to your bust area for extra support, try adding the silicone  bra. It sticks easily into place and no physical straps will show. The extra volume the bra provides in the bust area will help hold up your strapless item.

To read more about how to wear your silicone bra, click silicone bra tutorial.

In addition, try adding the lingerie tape for a more secure fit without having to alter your item permanently. As mentioned above, the tape is skin-friendly and will not leave any residue on your item after usage. Simply apply the required amount of tape onto your body where you want extra support or security. After you finish wearing the item, gently pull away your clothing and roll away the remaining tape on your skin. Please remember to remove the tape before cleaning your clothing.

To read more about how to use lingerie tape, click lingerie tape tutorial.

Add a Belt for Waist Definition

Also, if you’re thinking of altering the waistline for a tighter fit and provide an hourglass figure, try cinching the waistline in with a belt instead. You can mix and match different colors of belts for a different look each time.

Pre-Shrinking 

Lastly, try pre-shrinking your item. (Always follow the cleaning instructions on the care label) Most items cut from natural fibres will experience some shrinkage if washed in hot water and dried in the dryer. You may judge from this point whether or not you still need alterations. This is a simple yet effective step that will allow you to show off that original billowy style but also help the material hug to your natural curves.

So here they are, ladies! Hopefully these steps will help you save money on alterations and give you more versatility. Do you have any tips to share with us?

Are you conscious about your midsection? Do you  feel that you can only wear loose fitting black tops ? We’ll give you some tips and advice to help you disguise an undesirable midsection and look glamorous all the time.

Try wearing clothes with waist defining belts or bands around the midsection. They help “cinch” in the waist to create a slimming effect.

Try wearing tops or dresses with an Empire Waist design so the fabric flows away from the body and doesn’t draw attention to that area.

Try wearing dresses with “ripple” effects in the body to hide imperfections.

Try wearing dresses with colorful bust and black body designs so attention will be drawn to colorful tops only while black hides the imperfections in tummy area.

Try wearing flowy tops with wide banded details that sit at your waist line so the top flows over your midsection and helps soften up the dominant area.

Try layering thin cardigans over your camisoles. Tie a knot or wear a belt to skim your body silhouette.

Try magic slim body supports and tummy pants to smooth out the middle portion of your body. These garments provide compression to the tummy/hip area and gives the appearance of a smoother, thinner silhouette instantly!

Avoid tight or overly body conscious styles that draw more attention to your problem areas.

Avoid clingy and sheer fabrics that hug and highlight your problem areas.

By choosing the right designs, you can camouflage your flaws and bring attention to only your best assets.

FAQ about Lingerie Body Tape

Lingerie Body Tape is a skin friendly adhesive tape that helps to keep your clothing in place and prevents wardrobe malfunctions Enjoy the security of wearing your silicone bra underneath backless dresses or deep plunge shirts with the extra support of lingerie tape. You can feel confident and sexy on the dance floor without worrying about your tube top falling off.

The tape is also useful for younger ladies with less cleavage. Use the tape to give your dress a secure fit now without having to alter the garment. This way, she can grow into the item.

How do I wear the tape?
Please ensure that any contact skin is free of make-up, oils, powders, moisturizers, and fragrances prior than applying lingerie tape.

Put on your clothing and adjust it for optimum fitting.

Cut the tape into the required length and simply apply it onto your body where you want extra support or security with a smoothing action.

Peel off the backing of the tape and pat your clothing onto the tape and you’re done!

You may need to avoid using the tape on gentle fabrics. Test a little on the underside of your item first if you are unsure.

Where do I apply the Lingerie Body Tape?

For tubes: Please apply the tape to the top of your bust line to prevent tubes from falling. Don’t forget some on the back too if required.

For low cut dresses/tops: Please apply the tape along the edge of your clothing to help secure the fabric onto your body.

For straps: Please apply some tape on your shoulders to prevent the straps from slipping.

For over knee socks/leg warmers: Please apply some tape to the top edge of socks/leg warmers to prevent the items from falling down while walking.

How do I remove the Lingerie Body Tape?

Before retiring for the evening, gently pull away your clothing.

It is most likely that the tape will remain on your skin.

Slowly roll the remaining tape away from your skin.

Remove the remaining tape from the clothing before cleaning.

Will the body tape cause skin irritation?

Lingerie Tape is skin friendly; yet please do not use the tape if you have very sensitive skin, open cuts, blisters, or skin allergies. If you experience burning, irritation, or discomfort, please remove the tape at once.

I already have Double Sided Tape at home, isn’t it just the same thing?

No, it isn’t. The lingerie tape is made specially to be gentle on the skin and on your garments. You will notice that the Lingerie Tape can be pulled away from the fabric and your skin easily without leaving a messy residue like regular double sided tape.

There you have it, you don’t have to worry about your tube top slipping off again !